The Confidence Curve: How Three Weeks on a Pilot Cutter Can Transform Your Teen’s Life

“He came back standing taller.”

We hear this time and again from parents after a QBE expedition—and it’s not about posture. Something happens when teenagers leave the comfort of home, trade dry land for a special sailboat, and learn to make real decisions as part of a tight-knit crew. A youngster’s sense of confidence doesn’t just grow—it blossoms.

Confidence Isn’t Taught—It’s Built

Unlike in school, where success is often measured by test scores, on a QBE expedition teens are measured by their willingness to step up. They take turns at the helm. They learn to navigate. They help plan meals and lead their teams. They’re trusted, listened to, and expected to contribute. The result? They rise to meet the moment—over and over again.

Real Responsibilities, Real Growth

On board, there’s no hiding. Everyone plays an important role. That sense of accountability may be unfamiliar—if not a bit disorienting!—at first—but it’s incredibly empowering. Whether it’s hauling lines in rough weather or calming nerves when coming up beside the quai, every challenge a teen overcomes at sea becomes a quiet internal win. And those wins add up.

From Quiet Kids to Emerging Leaders

We’ve seen the shyest crew members become go-to navigators. We’ve seen teens who doubted themselves become poised team leaders. This isn’t confidence for show—it’s the earned kind that doesn’t wilt under pressure. And that stays with them long after they step off the boat.

Three Weeks. A Lifetime Effect.

Parents tell us their teens come home changed: more mature, more self-assured, more resilient. A QBE expedition isn’t a vacation—it’s a challenge to be met and conquered. And the confidence that inspires? That just may be the best souvenir your teen brings home.

June 2023 Expedition Update

After stops in Binic, Saint-Quay, and Lézardrieux, we’re off to Roscoff on Saturday. The weather has been terrific, though we could use more wind in our sails.

The crew of Yseult at Binic-Étables-sur-mer

Learning how to steer a cutter! And though of course you can’t hear it, there’s always an expedition soundtrack; music is playing almost all the time. Playlist details later.

Binic Harbour

World-Class Mentoring

Here's a question: What do several Hollywood movie stars and directors, a Formula One racing champion, numerous high-profile CEOs, ambassadors, and even a few members of the world's royal families have in common? Answer: They all have children who once were coached, taught, or mentored by ELS director Will Sutherland.

Addictive Behavior

A number of years ago, several of us involved in the European Leadership School attended boarding school In Switzerland—in a ski resort no less. We skied almost every day. In those days learning how to ski was painful; you spent more time on your rear end than standing upright. But after you got the hang of it, the sport grew on you. And by the end of the season you were hooked. You couldn't imagine life without a mountain and ski lift in your back yard.

Sailing a classic yacht is the same sort of proposition. The first day bobbing up and down in the water, trying to figure out what you're doing, can be a little unnerving. But by the end of the first week, you're addicted. And by the end of the course, you feel like some sort of James Bond—smoothly operating at a new altitude in magical European destinations. (For what it's worth, we think our cutters are cooler (if less luxurious) than that boat Daniel Craig and Eva Green used to make their entrance into Venice in Casino Royale.) Anyway, sailing, like skiing, is a sport you simply have to try to fully appreciate. Video images on a screen don't do it justice. And yachting should come with a warning: potentially mind altering.